They say, “HAPPINESS
IS A STATE OF MIND.” Things often confuse us when we start with, “They
say…”
2014 has
just started; many of us have already booked this brand new year to achieve
something new. “New Year Resolution”,
like all these years has become a silent ritual which we follow on the day one
compulsorily.
We resolute
we fail, we plan a diet chart and we go hungry like hell, on another list we
will have meditation, yoga, laughing club- just to stay calm & happy. Some
good scores on card, some new books just to add to your library, extra homework
time (which later turns to be a buffer for games & movies) if you’re a
student. At No.1, a wardrobe make over
for sure & recently should have been moved to, “Things to do before I die” list! This jargon of making and breaking
resolution goes on… *insert infinity*
May be the family tour would be the only thing that would work best out of all
other plans we do on 1st January eve every year. Déjà Vu!! It’s the same again!!!
When
observed closely the sole reason behind all these plans, resolutions and lists
is-Happiness.
Man does so many things consciously & unconsciously just to
be happy and to make others happy. Being happy shall chuck out all the above
lists & we might not need them all anymore probably…!
Human mind
is so powerful that it can easily fill in the gaps & also powerful enough
to read between the lines. At times both these gaps & between lines put us
in a fix & hurt feelings. Hence that state of mind –Happiness- is
lost. Come what may, our mind is still
powerful enough to bridge the gap & bring on a smile if we will. But at
hard times we overrule our will to stay happy by taking up hard decisions in
haste. Instead we should try to overrule our unhappiness by willing to smile at
first stage- This in my words is a process of restoring- HAPPINESS-a state of mind.
We should
believe in miracles, miracles which change our way of thinking, a miracle which
changes our life forever, a miracle which makes one feel- “Happily ever after!”
One magician who can do such miracles is right
in our minds, in our own selves. We have to just believe in it. Belief is a
branch of happiness, when we start believing things we realize how easy our
life is. Breach of trust & belief is a part and parcel but we lose nothing
in believing, it’s a loss for the one who breaks it. They’ll surely learn their
lessons and shall come back. All we have to do is to forgive and believe again.
BELIEVING-
is a state of HARMONY. FORGIVING- is a state of PEACE.
So please
submit your happiness, start loving people, believe, forgive and make your life
remarkable and resolve to HAPPINESS- a state of mind starting this 2014!
:o)
